The first 48 hours: Helping your dog settle in
Helping your dog settle in starts the moment they walk through the door, whether it’s a wiggly puppy or a rescue dog in need of a fresh start. The first 48 hours are a crucial window for building trust, comfort, and calm. While it’s tempting to dive into training and bonding right away, your focus should be on helping your dog feel safe, secure, and supported in their new home.
Think of these initial days as the foundation for everything else to come. To guide you gently through this period, we’ll talk about the 3-3-3 rule, a simple framework for understanding how your dog adjusts over time.
Before your dog arrives: Setting your home up for success
Thoughtful preparation is key. Before your new furry friend arrives, take a moment to create a cozy, calming space specifically for them. This might be a crate, a comfortable bed area, or a quiet corner of your home. Depending on your home’s layout, baby gates or an exercise pen can be lifesavers for managing space and creating safe boundaries.
Gather essentials like food, bowls, a collar with ID tags, leash, toys, bedding, and treats to make your dog feel welcome. It’s also helpful to agree on house rules with your family in advance. Will your dog have access to furniture? Who will be responsible for daily feeding and walks? Clear expectations help everyone adjust smoothly.
If you’re welcoming a rescue dog, ask the shelter or foster about their routine, favourite toys, or comfort items. For puppies, chat with the breeder about their current schedule, feeding, and any early socialization experiences.
Day 1: Calm and predictable
Day one is all about helping your dog settle in through gentle introductions and calm, consistent routines. Let them explore at their own pace without pressure or excitement. Limit visitors, avoid noisy activities, and focus on helping them settle into their safe space.
Maintain predictable routines for meals, potty breaks, and rest periods. Consistency reduces anxiety and helps your new dog begin to trust their environment.
Rescue dogs may initially seem cautious or reserved, while puppies might whimper or cry during their first night. This is perfectly normal. A reassuring presence and patience will go a long way.
Day 2: Establishing trust through routine
As your dog begins adjusting, gently establish routines that provide security and predictability. Regular feeding schedules, brief positive training sessions (such as responding to their name or simple cues), and calmly introducing everyday household noises help your dog settle in comfortably.
Remember, bonding takes time. Let your dog approach you for affection, building trust at their own pace.
Understanding the 3-3-3 rule
The 3-3-3 rule provides a helpful timeline to understand your dog’s adjustment process:
- First 3 days (Decompression): Your dog is quietly observing and may feel nervous or cautious. Give them time.
- First 3 weeks (Settling in): They’re finding comfort, learning routines, and may test boundaries gently.
- First 3 months (Trust and bonding): Your dog’s true personality emerges, and they truly feel at home.
Every dog adjusts differently. Patience, kindness, and consistency are key.
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Final thoughts
The first 48 hours are just the beginning of helping your dog settle in and start your exciting journey together. By providing patience, consistency, and comfort, you’re laying a strong foundation for lifelong trust and companionship.
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Further reading
For even more helpful tips, consider checking out Before & After Getting Your Puppy by Dr. Ian Dunbar. It’s a fantastic resource filled with practical insights for life with your new dog.
Note: Every dog adjusts uniquely. If your new companion seems especially fearful or anxious, consulting a professional trainer or behaviourist for personalized support can be incredibly helpful.
